Mahjong Money Etiquette: Agreement Before the First Tile Moves

Ask before assuming

Wagering and payment practices vary by place, group, and tradition. Participation should never be inferred from attendance.

Make the mechanics explicit

State amounts, caps, settlement timing, payment method, record keeper, treatment of mistakes, and whether guests participate.

• Offer a no-money table or night.
• Never pressure explanation for opting out.
• Check applicable law for organized wagering.

Stop when discomfort appears

Pause settlement and reconstruct records calmly. Friendship does not improve by resolving money ambiguity through embarrassment.